“First attempt “ek aisi shuruwaat jo har kisiko life me kabhi na kabhi krna hi hota hai.Baby 3+hua to school admission me,class me first aane ke liye,collage me admission ke liye or yaha tak ki job interview ke liye, to kya ise lena easy hota hai hum sabke liye?well i think nhi,Ajkal her insaan ko koi bhi bada kaam krne se pehle ye thought irritate krta hai ki ager main fail hogya fulfill kerne me to kya hoga?QUESTION MARK ban jaata hai mind me .Hume khud se zyada or apni family se zyada logo ki fiker kyu hoti hai ? hum apne failure ko accept nhi kr paate kyu?Kyuki hum derte hai apni haar se ,dusro ke saamne humare value ke kum ho jaane se ,colleagues ke aage humiliate hone se ,apni society se .

Per kya ye der valid hai?Nahi kyuki ek bachcha bhi jab pehla kadam uthata hai to kai baar girta hai kai baar sambhalta hai or ek din wo succeed ho jaata hai .Ab sochne waali baat ye hai ki wo bachcha jise duniya ki koi perwaah nhi ,unch neech,bada chota in sabme farak nhi pta use wo value pta hoti hai ki koshish kerte rehne se manzil mil jaati hai or ye koshish her insaan kerta hai bachpan me per pata nhi bade hote- hote hum kyu itne nadaan ho jaate hai ki pehla sabak hi bhul jaate hai.

Aap fail hone se na dero blki fail hone ki wajah dekho ek baar haaroge do baar ya teen baar pr 4th time aapko pata chal jaayega ki bhul kaha krre ho to usi per work kro or khudko mauka do kyuki jo insaan confidently har baar kamiyaab hota hai use apni jeet ki itni khushi nhi hoti jitni 3 baar nakamiyaab hoker 4th time me kamiyaab hone se hoti hai to” be confident and attempt all the challenges in your life without thinking the result “

Optimism kya hota hai? Optimistic matlab positive rehna. Kya hum humesha positive rehte hain? Well, nahin, kyuki hume humesha dar laga rehta hai ki kuch galat ho jaayega. Kyu? Kab? Kaise? Ye to nahin pata par ho jaayega lekin main puchna chahti hu un sabhi logon se ki – kyu aati hai itni negativity and kaha se aati hai ye? Sach kahu to ye hum me se humare aas paas ke environment or logo ki taraf se aati hai lekin, kya ye aani zaruri hai? Mujhe nahi lagta. Kyu hum khudko demotivate kre, kyu dare? Kya hum galat hain or agar galat hain to uska result to galat aana hi hai no doubt. Par agar sahi hain, to kyu sochna ki kuch galat hi hoga humare saath; meri khud ki observation hai ki agar hum achhe hain or suchhe hain to kabhi galat ho hi nhi skta. Or fir bhi galat ho to yakeen maaniye us galat ke peeche kuch bohut achha chupa hoga aapke liye to aaj se ya abhi se khudko badaliye, apni soch badaliye or be positive kyuki jo insaan khud par control nahi kar sakta uss par duniya control kar leti hai. So let’s make a promise to be positive and to be a real human. 😊

Thanks for joining me!

Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton